I've been dating a guy for about 7 weeks, and it has been really, really good. He's never been officially diagnosed with ADD, but has studied up & is pretty sure he has it. He's not planning on taking meds for it, like me, it's a fairly mild case (though I choose to take Wellbutrin). Basically, it gives us a lot in common, we get along swimmingly, for MANY reasons but we do worry about when we get past the "honeymoon-euphoria" stage that so many ADDers are prone to falling victim to-looking for that "rush."

It may be silly to worry about, but it's something any couple, even non-ADDers need to keep in mind, IMO. We're looking for other bases in common (and have a LOT), but wow, there's so much feeling there. My philosophical question is this, I guess...if you worry about the Honeymoon stage ending, do you think that makes it more likely to end quicker,or is it like how they say a crazy person never actually worries about or thinks they're crazy (not saying ADDers are crazy! Just that they say "...if you worry if you're crazy, you're not, crazy people always think they're perfectly sane"), or to see things from a more sensible view that allows you to keep the "fires burning" based on more solid fuel then the pure emotion?